I have a feeling that I lost so many years with you. but then I also know that maybe we weren't ready. I hate myself a bit for not trying. but I was literaly crawling undergrownd when we had our first encounters.
Looking for an out-of-the-ordinary water feature? If you don't have a slope for a waterfall and a fountain won't do, consider a 'rain shower' structure like this. This contemporary design would work well in a high-tech or zen garden.