Collect good people, truly good people and protect & love them, the best you can.
"If you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing it is stupid.
I'm not sure if you truly ever heal after the loss of a loved one you just learn to live life without them, and I will never be whole again. I will learn to live with the emptiness of the hole in my heart.
Treasure people who stayed with you
Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are - Kurt Cobain Dead people talk a lot of sense :)