there's "Using Sexual Energy" as a woman to keep in shape, be positive spiritual how you dress etc then there is "Using Sexual Energy With A ♂MAN♂" , you have to find a "Man"! and kinda energetically connect sort a thing .
Cheating isn't always kissing, touching or flirting. If you gotta delete text messages off your phone so your partner won't see them. To me, a liar and habitual cheater are the lowest humans to walk this earth!