The healthy man does not torture others - generally it is the tortured who turns into a torturers.-Carl Jung the healthy man doesn't do the things that rip you to shreds thens acts like you did HIM wrong
Forgive yourself for not being at peace. the moment you completely accept your non-peace, your non-piece is transmuted into peace. Anything you accept fully will get you there, will take you into peace. This is the miracle of surrender.