If you are reading this you have SURVIVED your entire life to this point. You have survived traumas, heartbreak, devestation, the different phases of life. AND HERE YOU ARE. You go, motherfucker. You're awesome!
A good heart chases the one they love with passion. Life is boring if you let events dictate what you will and will not be. Chase if you want. It is thrilling. But be righteous and if the laws of God stand in the way, let them stand.
It takes a strong heart to love but it takes a stronger heart to continue to love after being hurt. My hubby Jeff was this kind of person. He loved a person, even if they hurt them. He had a forgiving heart & would find the good in everyone.