seriously this EXACT saying i want to say to so many people. dont think you know someone unless you really talk to them and know the situations going on in their life. (including specifics) if not then stfu.
'Tired of lying in the sunshine staying home to watch the rain. You are young and life is long and there is time to kill today. And then one day you find ten years have got behind you. No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun' ~ Pink Floyd