You can't change your situation but you can change your attitude in how you decide to see it and take the actions from there that's beneficial. Choose to be positive, find strength, be the better person. Be the better you.
A man who is truly interested in a woman will find an endless number of reasons why he must see her. A man who is just playing around-or confused about his own feelings-will find an endless number of excuses why he didn't show up. --Charles J.