Impolite as the language might be, its very true-ironic. Wanting things to be better, trying/wanting to help, bringing them out, leaving-they get offended after how they acted, in defense mode, try to justify/blame/hurt you more. People like this are sick cowards when they trash someone/what's most important in their life.
... In which my heart breaks as I remember Robin looking at Barney and shaking her head just the tiniest bit and the look on his face as his chance at happiness shattered around him in one awful, eternal second.