If a person doesn't want to take responsibility for the consequences of their actions, they may try to blame others. Don't accept blame when you've done nothing wrong. They need to learn that if they want different outcomes, they have to make different choices.
Outgoing president and dissembler-in-chief Barry Obama has learned one thing from protege Killary Clinton and he has learned it well. Expect to see more of this. This seems to be the only thing he's learned in an administration bereft of legitimate positive accomplishment. Crying towels available on request (please fulfill orders at DK).