I invited Jesus to my lingerie shower. He attended, no questions asked. In the jokes and the gifts and the lace, His presence was real. He didn't look like Himself, of course - His face was the face of my friends, the women who love Him and love me. But Jesus was there, right in the middle of our raucous laughter and our innuendoes about marital sex. He saw the joy, the anticipation, and the love of the women around me - women celebrating the sexuality He designed.