Keep the peace

Agreeing to things just to keep the peace is actually a trauma response. When you do this, you're disrespecting your boundaries. No more making yourself uncomfortable for others to feel comfortable. You have control now. You run your life. Take up space and use your voice. Unknown Author

The More. There is so much more going on here. The kicks are in the qualifiers… “based on” … “insignificant” … “others to control” … “overpower.”

Tags: boundaries - personal electric fence, boundaries with family, bullying, Conflict and Criticism, dealing with coworkers, estrangement, narcissists, passive aggressionWhen you decide to stop engaging, it’s not about letting the other person have their way and him/her ‘winning’; it’s about remaining true to yourself. I hear from people who are in some pretty awkward and […]

In the midst of today’s turmoil it often is difficult to feel or sense the presence of the Great Divine Creator God. Many people question whether there is a God with all that is happening in our world. Others choose to blame God for everything that goes wrong. Face it we are moving way too fast and not slowing down.

Avoiding conflict with your partner might seem like keeping the peace, but it actually hurts your relationship in the long run. Here’s why: 👉🏼When you don’t speak up, your needs go unheard. Your partner can’t address them if they don’t know what they are. This can lead to frustration and feeling like you’re not being heard. 👉🏼Unresolved issues don’t disappear. They build up over time, creating resentment. This resentment can damage the trust and affection in your relationship…

If you avoid the conflict to keep the peace, you start a war inside yourself.-Cheryl Richardson

Agreeing to Things to Keep the Peace is Actually a Trauma Response - Tiny Buddha