Toxic people will hurt you and then try to make you feel bad that you are mad or hurt or upset. It's known as blame shifting. Instead of taking accountability for their own actions, they blame you for "having feelings." Abusive people do this
I'm not perfect I make mistakes, I hurt people. I wish badly that I was perfect and that I never hurt another soul. For, when I hurt people I hurt myself much worse, so, when I say I am sorry I truly am.