The only Body-type that is truly comfortable w/ conflict or confrontation is the Fire-type. More on #relationships

If you avoid conflict to "keep the peace" or "peace at any price" you start a war inside yourself. This is NOT one of my favorite sayings!

I am peaceful now knowing I am happy seeing the person I love happy with someone else. People can call me weak but I know how strong I am accepting the fact that I am loving someone who does not love me back. Not many can reach that level of freedom.

“They caused the first wound, but you are causing the rest; this is what not forgiving does. They got it started but you keep it going. Forgive and let it go, or it will eat you alive. You think they made you feel this way, but when you won’t.

Resentment develops when you repeatedly feel unheard, dismissed or feel that a spouse put other interests ahead of you and the marriage.

Marriage Saver: Talking About Resentment

Resentment is not healthy for women, she will have coldness in her eyes and voice all because she feels unloved.  The man will feel unappreciated and loses his motivation to do more and he gets resentful too.  at this point the woman must see it is partially her fault and STOP giving so much.  PAMPER HERSELF! THE MAN MUST CONTINUE TRYING THOUGH AND BALANCE WILL RESTORE.

Henry Cloud is an acclaimed leadership expert, psychologist, and New York Times best-selling author with his books selling more than 10 million copies.