You may not able to control every situation and its outcome, but you can control your attitude and how you deal with it.similar to what I say a lot.if you can't change the situation, the only other thing then that you can change is your attitude.
I'm done wasting my time on people who don't care another person feels. I will personally take that silence as betrayal. Or honestly that I hate you for the rest of my life kind of thing. And that is why I say nothing, its the only thing I can do.