I can’t hate you. No matter how many times you may break my heart. I’m really not sure if I love you or not though. I’m scared to say I do, because as soon as I say I love you, something is going to happen to ruin our relationship
This is exactly what my husband does.Marriage wisdom teaches us to focus on the future, not continue to bring up the past. True forgiveness doesn't focus on the past but loves today and looks to tomorrow with hope.
“They caused the first wound, but you are causing the rest; this is what not forgiving does. They got it started but you keep it going. Forgive and let it go, or it will eat you alive. You think they made you feel this way, but when you won’t.
"Forgiveness is me giving up my right to hurt you for hurting me. Forgiveness is the final act of love. Forgiveness does NOT mean you take them back or put yourself in a position where they can hurt you again.