I mean, my "father" was an abusive ass and i never met by real father becausd said ass killed him. Add into thevfact that I never got to truly remember my mum and im the perfect potion for making my own family
Silent treatment from the narcissist. Once they sever the connection w you, it's ok if they forget you. If they can erase you that easily, they never were the person who deserved you. Moving on after narcissistic discard.