If you spend too long holding on to the one who treats you like an option, you'll miss finding the one who treats you like a priority or you might have them but you don't appreciate them.I know so many people who need to see this!
So over time I've accepted the fact that I am never going to be someone's first choice. I will always be second best. I'm always the second choice for my friends. My parents always pick my sister over me.
Yep done it for to long and will not compromise this in my next relationship and a real man wouldn't let this be how his woman feels ever. Don't make yourself available for that foolishness! I have learned my lesaon.
Honestly I never feel included I feel like their just my friends because they fill bad for me or don't want to be mean. I swear I feel so fucking alone around everybody. I feel like a fucking outcast all the damn time.
I would love to be the safe place, but I also expect it to be mutual. The effort is matched Actions speak sweetie. If you claim to be so different, why don't you show it instead of constantly speaking it.
If you become someone's second priority, never allow them to be your first. Eventually they'll admit to being bad at math, but you'll have already done that calculation for them. also don't let them treat you like shit